
Favourite pieces – now in Black Friday 25 sales
I'm short on time today - meetings in London after a week in Newcastle, a 60th birthday with old friends tonight and then the last of our Christmas parties tomorrow. After that life is narrowing down a bit with a focus on close friends and family for December. Phew! So I've had to finish pulling this together on the train this morning and the wi-fi really isn't playing ball. However there are some Black Friday 25 offers on some [...]
My midlife style staples – now discounted
My midlife style staples - now discounted This is a two part post again because there's something that's rattled me that I have to pick up on so I'll get that out of the way at the beginning. Then I'll move on to my midlife style staples - now discounted. Rather than just trawling through the Black Friday offers I thought I'd make it more useful by rounding up the things I love so much that I replicate [...]
Simple gifts for men 2025 – by request
Simple gifts for men 2025 - by request In response to my surprise post on Tuesday a couple of messages came in lamenting the fact that I wasn't planning on doing as many gift posts this year - particularly the gift ideas for men. And we all know why - men are hard to buy for. As a mum of boys I'm very aware that from the moment they're born most of them want to 'do' rather than [...]
The everywoman gift – 2025’s triangle scarf
I'm approaching Christmas a little differently this year. I can't believe how early the Black Friday madness has started and I don't know about you but I already feel bombarded by gift lists and discount messages. I've been chatting to some of my old Selfridges colleagues this week about how our role at this time of year used to be to create magic for people - to make a trip into London worth it. There was no discounting before [...]
Midlife winter outfit tricks
From the comments last week it sounds as though the Christmas spirit is slowly catching light in our midlife world. It's always more fun thinking about the what to wear bit than the sprouts and bread sauce though isn't it? So today I have a little more on that note, not just partywear but winter dressing in general as I bring the latest Boden drop to life. At this time of year I like to find an hour on [...]
Let’s get this midlife party started
As is the way these days the Halloween decorations went down last weekend and the Christmas ones started going up - not in my house but in a lot of others that I spotted when I was driving to Sainsbury's! So, I'm easing you in gently today with one of my favourite topics - party style - or just getting dressed for going 'out out'. I've been writing a version of this piece in early November since 1993 and [...]
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Hi, I’m Nikki Garnett, for 9 years I was the editor of Selfridges’ magazine. Now I’m married with 3 sons, a cat called Alfie and a dog called Ted. I live near the Lake District in the North West of England and run a small creative agency with my husband.
I created Midlifechic because a little while ago, amidst all the chaos of family and working life, I was beginning to feel like I’d lost my groove. So this is for anyone else out there who is emerging from the child centred years and looking forward to beginning a whole new chapter.
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Hi, I’m Nikki Garnett, for 9 years I was the editor of Selfridges’ magazine. Now I’m married with 3 sons, 2 cats and a dog called Ted. I live near the Lake District in the North West of England and run a small creative agency with my husband.
I created Midlifechic because a little while ago, amidst all the chaos of family and working life, I was beginning to feel like I’d lost my groove. So this is for anyone else out there who is emerging from the child centred years and looking forward to beginning a whole new chapter.
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Feeling bien dans ma peau
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Midlife Lately – October 25
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High Street style edit – where to shop
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Autumn 25 trends & easy updates
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Instagram – On the road @midlifechic
#AD As I mentioned a little while ago, I’ve been planning to go for Full Body Plus Health Assessment with @vistahealthuk. This is what happened when I went to the clinic for my private health screening.
I’d already had a chat about my health and family history with one of their GPs. Given that we have a high incidence of cardiac issues at a young age, he recommended that I have a CT scan as well as blood tests and a full body MRI scan.
That way with my family’s cardiac issues in mind, we’d know exactly how well my heart’s faring up as well as my brain, my spine and my other organs.
The thought of it was a bit daunting but I felt as if I was taking control of my health. On the day, everything was quick and efficient, all I had to do was lie-down and listen to the radio for a couple of hours.
Now I just have to wait for the results which will arrive in the next few days. They’ll give me a really clear picture of how well everything’s working, if there’s anything that needs following up with and I’ll be able to work out if there are any lifestyle adjustments I need to make.
It could be life changing. I’ll tell you more about what they found soon - watch this space.
#VistaHealth #MidlifeClarity
#AD I think a lot of us who’ve reached midlife start to realise that it’s a new beginning - a time when life begins to open up… and if we’re lucky the years ahead look full of promise with opportunities to work less and have a lot more fun.
It’s when you start to plan for new hobbies... dream of big trips... and all your other ‘if not now, whens’ - you’re ready to embrace every experience.
So I do my best to stay well but I’ve been wanting to truly understand my body better by knowing what’s going on underneath which is why I’m going for a complete health check with a Full Body Plus Health Assessment from @vistahealthuk.
They offer private diagnostic and health screening services with same-day scan appointments and no waiting lists - all over the UK.
Over the next few weeks, you’ll see what happens when I have my appointment - and what changes it tells me I need to make if I want to squeeze this next stage of life to the pips.
Apparently three quarters of midlifers worry about their health and many find it hard to prioritise the basics, such as getting the right amount of exercise and healthy food - and I’m the same… I do my best but I’m busy.
So, this is going to be a slightly scary but very interesting project - is your future health something you ponder over - or are you confident that all will be well?
#VistaHealth #MidlifeClarity
2025’s running on double speed - I saw a house taking their Halloween decorations down today and replacing them with Christmas 😳.
I thought I’d better get my October moments in quickly - most of them in the glorious city of Newcastle where the sun (nearly) always shines and the people definitely always smile.
My happy place…
#newcastleupontyne #midlifechic #agelessstyle #over50blogger #wiw
Ah summer 2025… you finally showed your face in The North… and then you were gone again - I guess that’s it!
I have loads of photos that haven’t seen the light on Instagram so I’m madly adding my 20 favourite summer outfits and moments before we’re all wrapped up in jumpers again.
From these pictures you’d think my summer was full of perfect moments wouldn’t you? But it hasn’t all been sparkles and sunshine - our family’s shared a hefty dose of the sadder side of life as well.
And that’s why I prefer blogging to Instagram… because I can tell the stories behind the pictures- every Friday.
When you look at a picture-led platform like this don’t forget that it doesn’t tell you everything… but it is a great way to remember that there are always pockets of joy.
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(PS thank you to my husband Mal for the photos and the moments. You have the eye of Avedon and the patience of a saint!)
#agelessstyle #over50blogger #midlifechic #ootd #over50style #summer25 #midlifestyle #wiw
Throwback to the Midlifechic + Claudia Bradby overnighter last weekend when 40 midlife women came to Birmingham as strangers and left as friends.
We crammed so much into our two days - a bit of shopping, a bit of history, some serious chat about the ups and downs of midlife as well as a lot of other conversations, laughter and even a bit of a boogie!
So many people see ageing as a negative thing but this was absolutely about the sheer joy that you can find in being an older woman and it multiplies when you get together with like minds.
I’ve written all about what we did and why in this week’s blog post on Midlifechic - that’s the place to go if you’d like to join us at our next event and be part of a community of thinking midlife women (who just happen to also like clothes!).
A huge thank you to @Malmaison for hosting us and to every single one of you who came along with an open heart and an open mind ❤️
#midlife #agelessstyle #malmaisonbirmingham #over50women #midlifeadventures
The happiest of days this week - my youngest son graduating scores me a hat-trick… (and brings a huge sigh of relief that they’re now all finally off the payroll!)
I’m so proud of him and everything he’s done to get to this day - my brilliant linguist with his degree in French and Spanish… but it’s a bittersweet time as well.
Everywhere I look there are parents with children enjoying the school holidays and it’s struck home that the whole rhythm of life as a family that revolves around term times is now over for us - once and for all.
So those of you who read my blog won’t be surprised to hear that tonight’s post is all about that - mixed emotions… and how it feels when your lastborn graduates.
Endings and new beginnings are always strange times for parents aren’t they? Or is it just me?
#midlifechic #mumofboys #graduation #leedsuniversity #graduationday #agelessstyle #over50blogger #familylove
Birthday thoughts today 🎂🍾💃
Looking back at a year of being 57 here are 5 of the Instagram moments I was told that I was too old for… that I’ll be taking happily into being 58!
1. Wearing a bikini (it’s been happening every year since I was in my 40s) - if I have the great fortune to reach 100 I’ll still be doing it then
2. Wearing shorts. Ditto
3. Wearing a mini-skirt. Ditto
4. Wearing a dress without a bra. Ditto
5. Going to festivals. Ditto
What is with ageism? It’s one of the most enduring socially accepted prejudices and it’s nearly always targeted towards women. We should all feel free to be happy in ourselves - ‘bien dans ma peau’ as they put it so perfectly in France.
And 5 of the new things I’m happy I adopted at the age of 57 that I’ll be taking into the years ahead.
1. Embracing the culture of my adopted city of Newcastle, its culture and the warmth of the wonderful Geordies
2. Solo travel - going away with strangers who became friends - that was a huge challenge but now I’ve done it I wouldn’t be as scared of doing it again
3. Adding Reformer Pilates to my solid base of strength training - accepting that an older body needs a holistic regime to build the right kind of lean muscle without damage
4. Trying to learn salsa - who knew it would be so hard - and so much fun?!
5. Loving spending more time with my husband of over 25 years, it may not be cool to say it but there’s a real beauty in enduring love
I know I always rattle on about this but your 50s are not the end of anything, they’re a new beginning.
Put yourself out there, try new things while spending more time on everything you already love.
Seize what life has to offer and don’t listen to the naysayers- just leave them to sit and waste their lives while you’re busy living yours.
#birthdaythoughts #midlifeawakening #midlifeblogger #wisdom #over50blogger #over50style #adviceforwomen #ageism
#midlifeadventures #olderandwiser
Ad| “If you have good thoughts they will shine out of your face like sunbeams and you will always look lovely”… but good skincare and make-up help! Over the last few weeks I’ve been testing all kinds of products from the No7 range at Boots and now I want to share my top 10 with you.
10 seriously good skincare and make-up heroes for anyone on a positive ageing journey - I’ve found they make a visible difference and they’re really good value.
Here you go… from morning to nighttime
1. Future Renew Serum – clinically proven to reverse visible damage to the face
2. Future Renew Damage Reversal Day Cream – adds extra power to the serum
3. Pro Artist Soft Glow Bronzer – looks scary in the pot but magical on the skin
4. Pro Artist Colour & Glow Lip & Cheek – a pop of colour and sheen in one stick
5. Pro Artist That’s A Wrap Mascara – non drop, so no dark circles
6. Pro Artist Matte Muse Lipstick – the perfect ‘no lipstick nude
7. Pro Artist Fixing Spray –adds glow and makes your make-up last
8. Future Renew Eye Serum – peptide magic for the under eyes
9. Future Renew Night Cream – nourishing overnight peptide repair
10. Protect & Perfect Body Serum – my ALL TIME favourite for tackling crepey, bumpy skin – especially on the arms
If you’d like to give any of this a try you can get 10% off Boots No7 between now and Tuesday 15th April with code NIKKI10
(excludes Future Renew)
Good skincare and make-up isn’t about trying to look younger, it’s about bringing out the best version of the face you have.
#skincarereview #postiveageing #agewell
Can you learn salsa in a week? Come to Colombia with us in 2026 and find out!
As you can see we didn’t have a clue when we danced our first steps out there with @dancesomoloco in February but by the time we left we could make our way around the dancefloor. It was a lot of fun and since we’ve got back it’s opened up a whole new social life for us at home. The whole experience has been so life-changing that we want to take a group of Midlifechic-ers out there with us for a @dancesomoloco week next September.
So come with us! It doesn’t matter whether you’re a pro or a complete beginner, a couple or travelling solo because you’ll have your own private teacher. The group will be a mix of people from the UK, the US and other countries so you’ll have great company and a lot of laughs as well as learning to dance salsa.
If you’re interested we’re holding a Zoom meeting on Tuesday night (8th April 2025). Just go to the link in bio where you’ll see what it was like for us along with an idea of prices. Register your interest at the bottom of the blog post and we’ll send you an invitation to the meeting.
Midlife is a time for new adventures so go on… take a leap into something new…
¡Bailemos amigos… bailemos!
#learnsalsadance #learnsalsa #learnsalsadancing #salsadancing #medellin #agelessstyle #midlifechic #midlifeblogger #midlifeadventures #emptynestadventures #midlifetravel
Just emerging from the Twixmas bubble to wish you the happiest of evenings as 2024 takes its final bow. There’s a fresh start ahead - let’s hope the new year brings contentment for everyone, everywhere.
I’ve been rubbish at posting over the last couple of weeks so here’s a random spin through my Christmas camera roll… my last day at work… general joy of having my boys and their girls back home… Christmas Day moments (who knew Wetherspoons gift cards and gardening gloves could bring so much pleasure?!)… a carol service takeover by the village cat… and various outfits I haven’t posted of being out and about.
Thank you so much for following my feed this year and the biggest of new year kisses to everyone who reads my blog… that’s where my heart lies, as you know.
Happy new year and may all of your resolutions be fun ones! In 2025 let’s spend our hard earned money on experiences not things and our precious time living in the real world not online.
#happynewyear #newyearseve #agelessstyle #familychristmas #newyeariscoming #over50blogger #over50fashion #midlifechic #styleoverfashion #everydaystyle
Pictures on the fly from a weekend in Leeds.
If you read my blog you`ll know my guilty pleasure is disco - both the cool contemporary kind and cheesy 70s joy. Last weekend was a celebration of the latter in 70s regalia... one of those dancing until your feet blister kind of nights. Never, ever let anybody tell you you’re too old to dance, just go out and do it anyway… whenever and wherever you can.
There was also time for a wander around Leeds in all its festive splendour and on Sunday we retrieved the much missed students from the youngest`s university lair, driving back through pretty Yorkshire towns, stopping for tea and cakes along the way until we returned to the glory of the Lancashire countryside.
One more week of work to go...
Outfit details:
Rainbow jumpsuit: Etsy festival shop 2020
Gold platform sandals - Hush 2021
Mals` shirt - Rush in Ambleside 2024
Mal`s jeans and shoes - vintage
Red jacket - Boden current (gifted)
Jeans - Me+Em 2022
Boots - Zara - 2023
Navy sequin top - Whistles 2018
Gold twinset - Zara 2024
Jeans - Me+Em 2022
#agelessstye #discostyle #outout #wiw #ootd
Thank you for so many comforting comments after Wednesday`s post - you`d think by midlife we`d be ready to live without our parents but there are times like birthdays when their absence just hits you.
Partly because of that, this week has just run away with me - I don`t know if you feel like you`re just behind with everything too but at least when I looked at my calendar I realised that we`re a weekend short in December this year so it made more sense.
So this serene looking picture isn`t me right now at all, it`s from this week`s blog post and if you`re a reader there`s a huge new catch-up just gone live there on everything else I`ve been doing, wearing and thinking over the last month.
For anyone else, here`s a Christmassy-ish outfit option that`s still available from my Boden edit this month. (I haven`t been paid to post this but the pieces were gifted).
Happy Friday everyone.
Outfit details: jumper, skirt and boots all Boden (gifted)

















